A Life Well Lived / Cheryl (Shari) Barba (Friend of 23 years )
Where do I begin? Justine and I were very, dear friends. We have known each other for 23 years, going back to our 'early days' at Apple Computer. Working closely together for eight years, we became close friends. Since her birthday was only ten days before my youngest daughter, Marissa's, and a month before mine, we often celebrated them together. I have to say, however, that Justine's last birthday, was a celebration of her life! We sang praise songs (or attempted to!), laughed, cried and hugged, enjoyed a feast by her Beau, Herman, and we made sure she knew how adored she was!
On many occasions, Marissa, Justine and I would stay for HOURS assembling mailings, packing boxes for trade shows, gathering marketing materials for presentations; all the while, "chatting it up." Justine loved children, and she delighted in spending time with both of my daughters, but especially Marissa, as they were 'kindered spirits.'
I have never known anyone so kind and forgiving, with the capacity for
UNCONDITIONAL LOVE, as Justine. I suspect I shall probably never meet another like her. Grace best describes her demeanor, always ladylike;
never critical, and she had a heart full of compassion. Many thought her shy, but she was just 'reserved'. She had a quiet dignity that earned her respect from all. But don't be misled, she was a "Tigress" in business, and her customers in Education will be forever indebted to her for the effort she put forth on their behalf. She always went the 'extra mile (and a half!)' for them.
When it came to children, she was a mentor, a scholar, a cherished friend, Auntie & Godmother to many. She and I walked in cancer walks to raise money for research and in support of all those battling this disease. We were together after her first surgery, at City of Hope.
Kathi (Koch), Christine (Griftner), Deana and I enjoyed our 'Girls' Night Out' occasions, going to the theatre, jazz or just dinner and a movie. There was never "enough" time together, but we all cherished it, anyway. Most of all, I will remember that Justine was a Warrior for Christ. She loved the Lord, and was a walking testimonial to Him. I will miss your radiant smile, your gentle laugh (at my stupid jokes), and your heart full of love. I consider your friendship and love as one of God's greatest gifts to me. You were a blessing to us all, and now you are celebrating with The Maker and finally out of pain! Rest in peace, loved one.
Shari Barba
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